Couple update

I met the other half (OH) of the couple when the first half (FH) invited me to dinner on Sunday. I immediately found myself in an awkward situation because I was not physically attracted to OH upon meeting him. In fact, I was a little bit repulsed by him. 

I realized then that this must be a challenge faced by many poly-identified individuals (is it?) and that maybe I should’ve prepared myself for it. As it was, I was unprepared. Thankfully, OH had a lot of redeeming qualities. He was very good at knowing good music and films and that made him more attractive. By the end of dinner, I was alright with going to watch a movie with them in their bedroom. 

We all know that “watching a movie” is code for banging. And bang we did. I got heated up to a point where it didn’t really matter what OH looked like. Apparently my dick doesn’t have discerning tastes. However, he was also really bad in bed. Super selfish and overly aggressive. He was ready to cum in about 12 minutes. FH helped me manage that situation a little bit and in the end, a good time was had by all. 

Then I showered, packed up, and FH drove me home. That was weird. As I was falling asleep, I realized that I really did not like the way things ended and that NSA sex really isn’t for me. It felt far too much like a business transaction, even down to the lack of laughter during the act. I’ve always thought that to be true, but I guess you gotta try it before you know you know. 

I won’t sleep with them again, but if they are willing to be friends, then I could do that for sure. They’re definitely interesting people. 

4 days ago  /  0 notes

Date went well

Except that it turned out to be only with one half of the couple. He’s super hot and we definitely fooled around. 

This morning I woke up to a text asking me over for dinner with both of them. I said yes.

1 week ago  /  3 notes

I have a date with a couple tonight

I’m not going in with any expectations and, honestly, I’m most interested in the logistics of the situation and the nature of their relationship. This’ll be interesting. 

1 week ago  /  1 note

brettzles asked: I stumbled onto your page and just had to tell you that I agree wholeheartedly about your post on your sexual orientation crisis. I feel the exact same way, that to be bisexual means, to some people, as if I were lying to myself and that I have to be gay if I consider men attractive. Bisexuality does exist, but even my friends at times don't believe me. Screw that. Most of the time. So yes, fuck those who try to define you because you yourself know what you like and that's a certain thing.

I’m glad you can relate! Bi-invisibility and biphobia can be pretty rough, since they come from both the hetero and queer communities. You’d think that we’d bridge the gap, but instead we are just doubly mistrusted. That’s why education is super important! I hope you take the time to educate the people in your life on this stuff. 

Thanks again for the feedback!

2 weeks ago  /  0 notes